You will also be given a phone number and e-mail address where you can contact me if you have further concerns before your session date.
If you have any questions before making the commitment to enroll, you may e-mail me.
When you first arrive, you will first meet my live-in boi who will make sure you have made the required preparations, and will verbally take an application from you. I encourage you to give frank answers so I can best understand your background and where you want to go. Trainee information is held in the strictest confidence and records are securely stored.
You will then be brought to my dungeon. My boi will will make sure you know how to address us and place you in the position of deference to await my arrival. He will also assist me during the session, so you can benefit from seeing the experience from the submissive's perspective.
Once you meet me, we will begin with a question and answer session to break the ice and make you feel at ease.
Then, depending on your personal needs, I will introduce you to the tools of the trade, including blindfolds, restraints, flogs, paddles, tit, cock and ball adornments. Other concepts I will teach you include:
- finding your limits
- respecting your master
- being an asset to your Master
- hierarchies in the BDSM community
- safe words -- what they are, how and when to use them
- what a Master really wants from a slaveboi
- terms of address
- practical real-world understanding of dom-sub relationships
- old guard vs. avant garde
- common misconceptions about BDSM
You will be challenged and excited, and will come out of the dungeon a more experienced, confident submissive and understand yourself better.